However I didn't find this out until my mid-thirties and instead spent most of my life feeling broken, alone, stuck and like an Alien in the world.
Why couldn't I just do the thing? Why wasn't I doing more with my life?
So I had A LOT of jobs. I got fired, left after a few years as I got bored or hated office politics. Along the way I also tried various self employed work, I started an online Roller Derby Skate Shop, I tried selling handmade goods, I tried Drop-Shipping and also had a successful online Bakery (Shown in image) but that closed due to burnout.
I didn't know what to do next and then I got Coaching and a new journey began.
As soon as I left high school I started working. I had no career goals, didn't know what I wanted to be but I knew I always wanted to work for myself, I just didn't know how.
After completing my coaching training, I began a journey of professional growth, working with a diverse range of clients to build my hours and refine my skills. This path led me to a transformative Neurodivergent Workshop conducted by Gem Kennedy, who would become a dear friend and a pivotal influence in my life.
The workshop opened my eyes to the world of ADHD, sparking an intense period of self-reflection and discovery. Initially, I questioned my feelings – wondering if I was reading too much into it or simply following a trend. However, this introspection led me to a profound realization: I definitely have ADHD! And that revelation was not just an acceptance but an empowering understanding of my true self.
Fast forward two years, and my journey as an ADHD Coach has evolved in ways I hadn’t initially imagined. As I worked with my clients, it became clear that while ADHD tools and strategies are valuable, there’s often something deeper at play. Together, we discovered that challenges like People Pleasing, Rejection Sensitivity, Perfectionism, and deeply ingrained beliefs about Productivity often have a greater impact on our lives. It’s not just about managing ADHD—it’s about understanding ourselves on a deeper level.
This realization led me to seek out more comprehensive training, which is why I’m currently enrolled in a Trauma and Somatic Counseling Course, set to complete in 2025. Through this program, I’ve come to understand that many of us with ADHD carry some form of trauma. Growing up in a world where our needs were often misunderstood or overlooked—especially for women with ADHD—has left many of us with a lingering sense of inadequacy.
I’ve also learned the crucial importance of reconnecting with our bodies and tuning into the messages they hold. In a mind that’s constantly on the go, this might seem challenging, but it’s a skill that can be learned and is vitally important to our well-being, as we're often stuck in flight or fight and freeze and this creates Stress, Anxiety and feeling Stuck.
A lot of women come to me in Peri-Menopause and Menopause and this is when our Estrogen levels start to decline and exacerbate our ADHD.
This also happens as our Estrogen fluctuates throughout our Menstrual Cycle.
Understanding how hormones play a part in ADHD and how to work with your cycle and understand how you mind and body works can help give ourselves more self compassion, understanding and new ways of managing the complications of life.
How I Like To Relax
learning something new, following ideas I have and dog cuddles
Favorite Drink
iced almond milk coffee
Anything you're working on or getting support for?
Friendships. I know why I struggle with them and how my adhd effects this but I'm still learning how I move forward with this myself
What Fidget toys do you have?
I have soft toys, shaped stones and a super soft foundation brush
Current Food you eat all the time?
I've just come out of a long ramen noodle phase and now it's toasties
Any pets?
yes, mini Labradoodle called Cassie
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